Elvis is sounding pretty great right now.
- I've told most everyone i know. At least, i think so. There are some people who have been left off of that list, but it's not for lack of trying. Although, it is a lack of trying in some people's cases. I just don't know how they're going to react, so i've let Facebook or my Gmail status message tell them. I'm sure this will come to bite me in the ass.
- I've picked my Maid of Honor, Cousin G. However, i haven't picked the rest of the bridal party because i just have no idea what i'm going to do with that. Though TheBoy has picked his Best Man - but i'm not so sure he's actually told him yet.
- I've put together a preliminary guest list just to see what kind of nightmare this is going to be - so far it looks like 115 people, but that's without consulting our parents or inviting everyone i would like to from work.
- I've decided to scrap the 115 people guest list and have a destination wedding to the Caribbean with our closest family - at most 20 people - and have a nice casual wedding on the beach.
- I took into account the fact that my grandmother is going to have a hard time on the beach or on the plane for that long, and also that Holy Crap, that's going to be kind of expensive for everyone flying down and maybe we'll just keep it within the continental United States.
- We're getting married in Acadia National Park on Mt. Desert Island, Maine. Because it's gorgeous up there and we love it. And if we're doing it up in Maine, we're getting married in October (2010) when the leaves are at their peak colors and it's going to be absolutely stunning. I've always wanted to get married in October, and wouldn't it be perfect in the mountains in Maine? Absolutely. Small ceremony in the park and then maybe dinner at the restaurant on the grounds or at a restaurant in Bar Harbor. It will be wonderful.
- They don't allow chairs to be set up for a ceremony in the park.
- There wouldn't be any bathrooms nearby for the elderly, less-continent people.
- Wedding will be in Bar Harbor-proper where there are buildings and bathrooms and cutesy, small-towny kitch - but most importantly, the bathrooms.
- If wedding is going to be away from home, then i'll have a great, big backyard party back at home for the rest of my family and friends and whoever isn't invited to the actual ceremony.
- Probably won't be possible to have a backyard party in the middle of October, what with it being cold and all, so i'll have to have the party at a restaurant or catering hall or something.
- Which brings us right back to just having the damn thing here at home in the first place.
However, I cannot get my Great-Aunt Louise out of my head. She is one of many, many old people in my family that would be seriously miffed about not getting invited to a proper New York Italian wedding. I know this. And it makes me feel guilty.
My mother has told me not to think about the Aunt Louises and not to feel guilty about anything i choose to do. I'm not going to make everyone happy, no matter what i do. And she's right. Those people are really hard to please. Easter dinner was a good reminder of that...
On the other hand, it'll just be so much EASIER to have the whole thing here, where I am and i KNOW of places and people that do this stuff. I won't have to think about trying to plan for something in a place that i can't just drive to whenever i need to. I won't have to think that i'm inconveniencing anyone and, let's face it: more invitees equals more presents. That's why people have weddings in the first place, right? Or else, we'd all just elope.
I'm just kidding about that presents thing. Sorta. (Hi! I'm broke!)
So, to sum up: I've registered. And that's about all i've gotten accomplished. My bathroom towels will be blue. There. I'm giving up on everything else for a few weeks.